What are some signs that my wife is cheating on me while im deployed?
Unfortunately there’s really no way to know unless you find solid proof she’s cheating. My sister’s married to an Army man and when he’s gone, she goes out and parties to cope with her loneliness but she never cheated on him. I know cause I was always out with her. Sometimes she’d act like she doesn’t want to talk to him only because she’s got some resentment that he left her all alone. I’m not saying your wife is cheating on you but you will need to ask her why she doesn’t want to make time to talk to you. There could be other reasons.
When a service member goes on deployment and has a wife or a girl friend it assumes all by itself that she or he may have an extramarital or sexual affair outside of the relationship./ What I would do is not to make drastic decision unless you know for a fact that this has happened already and only the facts. Opinions are worthless. Meanwhile, take a chill pill until you get back with her and upfront do not ever mention it for the sake of saving your marriage rather than destroying it.