What are some reasons that Heidi would have such co-dependent relationship with Spencer?
Sometimes some people substitute one person, with whom she’s co-dependent, with another. She has replaced mommy with Spencer. Some women do this. They take the man in their life and make them all that. And they absolutely turn their backs on their family, all for the sake of love. Is it worth it? In her lifetime, she may have a whole lot of men in her life, but in her life she will only have one mother. So the way that she deals with her mother sets the pace for other relationships that she has with other people. So she better clean this up. From what we can see on The Hills and in the news, it seems like the only person she has in her life is Spencer. That’s very dangerous, as I said in my book, Don’t Bet On The Prince! Because the prince may leave or die or get sick or run off with someone else or cheat or something. And you have to end up betting on yourself anyway in the end. We have seen “princes” in the news constantly cheating and doing some pretty bad things. And then where is
