What are some guidelines for office gift-giving, especially in the tight economy?
A. It is so important to do your homework before you give a gift. The important thing to remember is that the gift is about the receiver, not about us. If you want to purchase a gift for your boss, you might want to go in with other co-workers. Ask, “what do they like — golf, tennis, music?” Books are an excellent gift. Stay away from clothes, and also expensive gifts, which are looked upon as trying to gain support. You don’t want your gift to be misunderstood. Socially, it is always appropriate to take a gift to an event. One nice thing is to send flowers before you arrive. Don’t expect the flowers to be displayed, though. The same with wine — don’t expect it to be served, because your host will already be prepared. Q. When should thank-you notes be written? A. Notes should be sent 24 to 48 hours after you are given a gift or attend an event. You will make a wonderful impression, especially if it is handwritten. Don’t make it too wordy, but acknowledge the event and the gift. Q. How
