What are birth mothers looking for in an adoptive couple?
Most birth mothers are hoping to find a loving home for their child. The birth mother is looking for a couple that can provide everything the birth mother would love to give her unborn child but can’t. You do not need to be the youngest, most attractive, richest couple to be selected. Just be you. Birth mothers are attracted to couples who convey genuine warmth and honesty in their letters. You should not try to be something you are not in order to be selected. Put your heart on paper and it will attract a birth mother that is looking for the things you have to offer. Some birth mothers have preferences about different things, which are usually uncovered during the initial phone call. These preferences usually involve religion, lifestyle, etc. Out of the many birth mothers we have talked to over the years we have learned there is someone for everyone. The key is exposure and getting your letter out to as many birth mothers as possible.
Most birth mothers are hoping to find a loving home for their child. You do not need to be the youngest, most attractive, richest couple to be selected. Birth mothers are attracted to couples who convey genuine warmth and honesty in their letters. You should not try to be something you are not in order to be selected. Put your heart on paper and it will attract a birth mother that is looking for the things you have to offer. Some birth mothers have preferences about different things, which are usually uncovered during the initial phone call. These preferences usually involve religion, lifestyle, etc. Out of the thousands of birth mothers we have talked to over the years we have learned there is someone for everyone. The key is exposure and getting your letter out to as many birth mothers as possible.
