What a good advice to give to my friend who want to mess around with the married men?
It is never good to date a married man. The guy is in the wrong for leading your friend on but she is wrong for messing around with him. Most married guys that have affairs with people are not planning on leaving their wives or their families but they just want a toy to play with on the side. It is morally wrong and even if the guy does leave his wife, who is to say it won’t happen again. If he does it once, he will do it again so your friend is only setting heself up for heartbreak when she dates a married man no matter what she says.
When you date a married man you know you can’t be tied down. He’ll go back to his wife and you’re free to go about your business. Your friend doesn’t want to settle with another man yet. It’s the married mans wife and children that will get hurt when the wife finds out though. You can only tell your friend to imagine it happening to her when she falls madly in love with a man and there’s another woman doing what she’s doing now. Tell her to chill out for a while and have a think about her actions. Some wives can be very nasty if they’re fighting to keep their husbands, what would happen to her children if a wife found out? Ask her.
