WE are about to get sued… is there a way I can transfer the deed to my house to my3 year old sons name,?
You need an attorney immediately. Ask your attorney for advice how to protect yourself. Some of the advice the other responders have given you would probably be considered fraudulent and would create more problems for you if you followed their advice. It would be a simple matter for the opposing attorney to discover the transfer of the house to your son. The transfer would probably be considered fraudulent and would probably be used against you to make you look bad in the eyes of a jury. The transer could probably also be reversed by the court. In short get an attorney today and follow his advice.