Wanting another man to sleep with the wife?
I have that same fantasy, but it deals nothing with fear. Nothing at all. My reasons for wanting it is that I don’t see sex as love. I see it as a fun practice that two people engage in. I know how my wife feels and acts when I make love to her and I am secure enough to know that we love each other. The question that I get most often is, “what if the other guy is better?” My answer to that is that although I know I am pretty damn good in the sack, I am also not so naive to think I am the best ever. I know there are several guys out there that are “better” than me, but I know that I am good enough to hold my own. It is just the thought and eroticism of watching your wife get pleasured by another man or woman and seeing their reaction that turns me on. Not fear.
