Want to Marry Him, But Don Want to Ruin Things by Asking?
A lot of women experience the dilemma of being in a relationship that’s so good that they can’t wait to get married, but their men doesn’t seem to have marriage in mind just yet. This is often okay for a year or two, but what if the same setup drags on for four, six, eight years? Women in this position usually do one of two things. First, they begin to nag their boyfriends to death about getting married, settling down, starting a family, etc. When the guy doesn’t respond quickly enough, they kick things up a notch and nag him even more. What happens next? They’ll soon realize that the guy is slowly withdrawing from the relationship. He soon starts acting distant and uninterested, and always seems to be preoccupied with work or other things. The more they nag, the more he seems to slip away, until he ultimately ends the relationship altogether. The second thing most women do in this situation is to not do anything at all. They know that talking to him about marriage and settling down ca