The hardest part to explain about a website such as fwselijah.com is that it includes many assertions that are partly true or contain an unidentified bias. How can a new reader distinguish?
We find that two people can go through exactly the same experience and have very different recollections years later. It may be because of intervening experiences which create positive or negative feelings towards something in the past. But it happens that out of the same event can sometimes come increasing bitterness or growing sweetness.