start time and end time TOO flexible. how to make them more specific ?
If the children are coming over to your house, of course you have every right to specify a time frame. If a parent shows up to late, just politely tell them the the other children are getting ready to go and that you have plans. Don’t be wishy washy and allow the other parents to manipulate your time as well as the time of your children. Socialization skills are important to a child, but learning to respect other people is also important. By allowing these other parents to come and go as they please, and not following the schedule times, shows your children that it is okay to do what you want when you want without recourse. That really isn’t the way the world works. Show up for work an hour or two late and see how your boss reacts. It is up to you to show your children that they are important enough to you to have uninterupted personal time with you as a family. Don’t let other people’s lack of respect effect your family’s lifestyle or quality time.
