Speaking of Jay and older brother Jim, which Gruden brother is the most successful?
JG: That’s hard to say. Jay and I have been married a long time, have three healthy kids who are doing pretty well in school. Jim is running his radiology department in Atlanta. All three of us have our flaws, but we’re all finding our way. RM: But who’s the coolest? JG: (Smirking) Well, I’ll have to say it’s Jim. He’s a doctor and gets to wear all the fancy clothes and go to all those cool social gatherings. Plus, he plays the piano, which is pretty cool. RM: Got any instrumental skills? JG: I played the baritone when I was a kid and drove my family crazy. That was a short stint. I have no musical ability. RM: Is there something you wish you would never have known? JG: I don’t know, but I can buy that you don’t need to know everything. You don’t have time in life to know everything. If you can find one thing and know a lot about it, that’s the goal I have. RM: What’s the best quality you can have in a mate? JG: I would say independence. It’s real important. My wife, if it wasn’t for h
