Silly Question. would a child custody disagreement keep someone from joining the Air NG?
If your wife has primary custody (there would be no shared custody since the child is still an infant)with your having cort ordered visitation, she will have to establish a legal gaurdianship for someone to care for the child while she is in basic and tech school. Legally, she may choose anyone as she is the primary care giver. However, if in choosing her parents this will affect your visitation, it will have to be approved by the court as a new visitation plan will have to be established. She can also, if she chooses, have a temporary gaurdianship established naming you as the child’s gaurdian while she is gone, with a specific date of termination set in the agreement. That would mean that on that date, the child would be returned to her custody and the previous visitation schedule would be re-instated. Many mom’s will choose to have grandparent;s care for the child, sometimes out of fear of an ex using the temporary arrangement as a way to change custody and some because if custody r
To my knowledge the military does not ask for anything other than the contact information of who will have custody of the child while the service member is in basic training and AIT. I would say that your ex is just wanting you to write a statement to satisfy her own insecurities just in case you tried to take custody of the child. Also, depending on the state that you live in, most states would grant you temporary custody while your ex is away, before they would grant it to the grandparents, IF you decide that you want to get custody that is. To find out more information you can contact a local recruiter or her recruiter and he would be able to give you that information for certain. Hope that helps!
