Should parents share equal responsibilities when it comes to a new baby?
It may be time to call his bluff where you HAVE to go out somewhere and he HAS to look after her as in no one else is available to look after her, he needs to take responsibility but perhaps this is the only way to do it, when he is left literally holding the baby he is going to HAVE to deal with her and time alone with her may help hin form a bond with her. You certianly not wrong his behaviour is wrong and you will have to talk to him, you can let him know that if you had wanted to be a single mother you would have gone to a sperm bank. The fact that he is leaving both of you on your own as much as he does points to something very wrong in the relationship, he has’nt adjusted to being a father but if you 2 are to survive as a couple he needs to be told that you will leave if he continues ignoring your child and you. Thats not a mariage, he only comes home to sleep and then he’s gone again. I hope it works out for you, nip this in the bud now and dont have a second child with him unti
