Should mothers recieve tokens instead of cash for child support!?
my ex has not paid a penny for my two in nearly 5 years and has not seen them in 2, it is not a problem as i have now remarried and they call my husband dad as he cares for them however in the early days when i was on my own i asked my ex for support and he said no, i went to csa and they could not find him as he moved and gave up his jobs everytime they found him, i asked him to put money on a gift card for asda for food and clothes or for vouchers for mothercare or adams but again he refused, he said they didn’t live with him so he wouldn’t pay.
I used to think along these lines too. Then I became a single mother, and realised exactly how hard it is to support your children and give them everything they need. I also realised how much you go without yourself to ensure that your children have the best of everything. Walk a mile in someone else’s shoes before you judge.