Should i change my childs last name even if i don want to?
dont worry i am in the same position im 18 now though and pg now and my bf is mad cuz im having it in my last name and honestly if you dont want to then dont cuz there is another reason that you dont want to rather you tell him or not dont let him have his way im not with mine if we do get married then i know his mom wouldnt try to take the baby away and then he knows he dont get his way and really you dont have to put his name oont he certificate.
If you don’t want to, don’t. I don’t know what the law is in Virginia, but in Minnesota, where I live, it’s actually quite a hassle to change a child’s last name, and it carries a significant cost as well. I’m married, and my husband and I have two children. My husband’s extended family is not involved in our lives, but we’re very close to my family. I kept my last name when we married, and we gave our oldest child my last name. My husband’s name is not part of her name at all. When our second child was due, my husband admitted that he kind of wanted his name to be part of the kids’ names, somehow, and we agreed that they should be the same. When we looked into changing our older child’s name–even just her middle name, or adding a middle name, but doing it legally–we were amazed. It required a hearing with a judge, a bunch of notarized paperwork, and a fee of $350. So. My kids have my last name. And my husband is fine with that, and we’re all staying that way. I joke that maybe HE’S
