Should i break off the engagement?
Like you said, “you are only 18 and he is your first love.” I think you have answered your own question. Now days, 18 is too young to get married. Concentrate on getting an education and a career. After only four months, you are already fighting. The fact that you think this engagement may be a mistake and asking if we think you should break it off, says it all. Yes break it off. You have too much to do with your life (education, career, dating other guys, etc…), before you settle down to just one guy and marriage. Why do you get along when you are together, but fight when you are separated??? Simple! When you are together he has what he wants for himself (YOU). When you are separated, you are doing your own thing and he is afraid of losing you. You don’t want to make a life time commitment to someone who can’t handle you having time to yourself and doing things without him. He’s way too dependant on you and in time you will grow to resent this in him. It’s better to end this now, th