Should i ask my sister in-law to be a bridesmaid ?
If your to succeed you have to push through whats uncomfortable and if you know exactly where your life is going doesn’t matter which bus you take so to speak my sister in-law didn’t have me in her wedding but i helped out with other things opinions on decorations flowers cake etc, I think getting her in the wedding party is an after thought (pitty thought) just say you had other plans for her she knows these ideas coming later are real because your very busy and will welcome it, during the reception she’ll smile and know she was a part of it, and take those memories with her and you will to.