Should a woman expect to be treated like a lady if even if she doesn act ladylike?
If she doesn’t act ladylike, then perhaps she’s not worthy of the moniker, “lady”. To me a lady is one who clearly possesses grace, dignity and class. If the woman does not have these attributes, that doesn’t mean you should treat them badly, but they have to earn it or show it before they can expect to be treated as a lady…