Should a Single woman continue to be friends with a married man?
You’re probably not losing your marriage because your husband is emailing this gal. He married you for a reason, right? Unless he’s been abusive or you have caught him in some lie or he’s given you some other reason to cause you to think he’s cheating, you’re probably over- reacting. I am not married, but I have plenty of women friends who I email. We talk about our relationships, old friends who have moved away, politics, and life in general. Yep, most of these are women whom I have dated and slept with. I also have no intention of sleeping with them again. Another thing to consider is that when you get jealous about these things, it makes him feel like he’s not trusted or valued as a partner. I would have to reconsider my position in the marriage after a while of this behavior. I would have to ask myself if the person I married really respects me if she treats me that way. Final thought: What is making you feel so insecure? Some people know what buttons cause them to feel insecure in
My opinion: Here’s what I’d do: Your husband is so wrong! Go to cheaters.com and get the cheater checker installed in his computer in the stealth mode. It’s around $49.95. Then you can see all his email, IM, chat, and any porn websites he may visit. This will help you know if anything inappropriate is going on or not and you can print it all out as proof (put it away for your divorce attorney should you need one). Read Divorce Busting. It is solution oriented. Learn all you can about this woman – where she lives and works, who her friends are and her church, parents, etc. Back off for a bit and see what the cheater checker picks up. He may hang himself more and more everyday. Go get your hair and nails done so you can feel pretty no matter what he does. Read Divorce Busting because it tells how to confront them. He is soon going to have to make a choice after you read the book. This is the hard part: You have competition and you are going to have to be nicer, prettier, kinder, and more
