Rebound Love – Does it Work?
It is important that, after a relationship break-up, we take time out. I hear it all the time that the best thing to forget about one’s ex is to find a new lover. This is absolutely not true. Because: – During a failing relationship we have adapted, changed, modified ourselves (even at subconscious level) to either make the relationship survive in some way or to survive ourselves. We have often lost touch with who we really are and what’s left of us is the shadow of what we could be, of our magical potential, particularly at an emotional level. So, if we ‘pair’ up immediately with someone else, we will either depend on them to regain our emotional and psychological strength, so to speak, which is not only unfair to them but also quite counter-productive. Or, we will slowly regain ourselves within the new relationship only to wake up, one day, and feel that the new relationship is not compatible with the person we really are at all. The ‘new’ relationship will suffer greatly and we’ll b
