question mark What Do My Subselves Want?
Every subself seems devoted to keeping themselves and their host person safe from pain and harm – as they define “safe.” They strive fiercely to keep their roles or “jobs” intact, and to be free to use their gifts productively. Typical inner-family members long to be recognized, trusted, respected, and apprecia-ted for what they’re trying to do for us. In early = 4){ l = (screen.width – w) / 2; t = (screen.height – h) / 2; } var loc = ‘width=’ + w + ‘,height=’ + h + ‘,top=’ + t + ‘,left=’ + l; if_tx_handle = window.open(page,”if_tx”,”,,,,,,resizable,” + loc); if(parseInt(navigator.appVersion) >= 4){if_tx_handle.window.focus();} } //–>parts work, some subselves typically fear that other parts or an external person will misunderstand and dislike them, and want to “fire,” kill, or banish them. Such anxious parts can resist your meeting or disclosing your inner teams (inner voices: “What stupidity! A real waste of time! Don’t be a jerk! You’re weird! This’ll never work! Stop! You’ll uncov
