Proposing to a man. Adults only please.?
I have 6 brothers and a hubby and many other men in my life and I know this. The traditional man who wants to be able to take care of his bride will also feel that it is his place to propose when he is ready and not before then. Ready on all fronts even if you don’t need him to provide for you. This is what I did with my man who was just like that. My birthday was coming and I asked him this,” What are the chances I am going to get that sparkly thing for my birthday so we can get on with making us a real family.” He asked if I thought we were ready and if it was the right time. I told him there will always be some reason to wait for a better time and if we were an official family with all that goes with marriage we would be better able to handle it all as it should be, together. I never mentioned it again and 6 weeks later I got that ring. We have been a team ever since and I didn’t even know it was possible to be more of a unit that we already were. With your man you need to drop the
