Once I’ve selected a decision-making method, is the next step to file for divorce?
Not necessarily. Many couples choose to work out all the divorce issues before filing. Agree first, then file, is required with Collaborative Practice, and is used by most couples in mediation. Here are some reasons to file for divorce as soon as possible: • You fear for your safety. • You need financial support and your spouse refuses to pay. • Your spouse prevents your having time with the children. Get legal advice about the right time to file.