On eBay how long do U wait before filing as non payer?
Why dont you just send a friendly email asking them to contact you with regards to the item. If you put in your email to them that ‘if there are any problems or issues, please let me know as I understand difficulties can arise and we can make necessary arrangements to sort out any problems’. – by putting that you will seem alot more approachable and they may get back to you and say that their cat died so they were too upset to pay for their item or they may say ‘Im sorry, I cant afford it’ or ‘Ive changed my mind’. But one way or another at least you know whats going on (unless they ignore the ‘friendly email aswell, inwhich case I would just leave neg feedback and re-list). The thing is, sometimes people are hanging out for payday, however, if you appear to ‘bully’ them and keep posting invoices (which are very impersonal) then you dont seem approachable and they could be scared of contacting you to tell you whats going on and then not buy the item altogether, whereas if you send a fr