My relationship is falling apart and I dont even know if I want to stay married. Im not sure which workshop I should attend, the couples one or the one for singles?
If you are currently in a committed relationship, even if it is very shaky, I recommend that both of you come to the workshop for couples. The least that you can expect as a result of the workshop is clarity about what you and your partner should do. Many couples find new hope and optimism as a result of what they learn at the workshop. Occasionally they discover that “too much water has gone under the bridge” and they decide to end the relationship. Even if that is your decision, Imago therapy provides a framework in which you can respectfully say good-bye. This is especially critical if you have children that you will be co-parenting. And regardless of having children or not, it is important to understand how YOU co-created the current relationship you are in. YOU are going to take YOURSELF to whatever relationship you are in, and you dont want to find yourself creating more similarly painful experiences. But for the most part, the majority of couples leave the workshop with new ener