My parents are getting divorced please read whole description!!?
Why don’t you talk to your mom, honey, & see what she has to say about it. If you’ve been married 20 yrs., you just don’t up & decide one day you’re going to get a divorce & break up your family. Try to talk it over w/her, tell her you don’t understand, but you want to try it & also what is so bad she came to this decision. I feel she should at least give you some kind of an explination. Let her know how much it’s hurting & worrying you & that you’re just plain scared at the very tho’t of it. See what she tells you. Don’t be afraid to talk to her either. You really do need to…I wish you the best, honey…
You need to understand that not all things will work out the way that you would like it to. Then you need to come to terms that your parents maybe getting a divorce and the only way you can get the help you need is to talk to your parents. You maybe under the impression that you had something to do with it, which is why you want to stop it. But I can not give you advice about what to tell your parents that will keep them together. If they have been fighting all the time, it means that they are not happy. Do you really want your parents to stay together and not be happy. You will not die if your parents get a divorce. But if you talk to your parents about it they can get you into counseling so you can discuss your feelings with a professional.
if they are that religious maybe they will find help with their priest. but remember you are only 13 god knows what is going on in that crazy adult world it is not easy to be married for so long believe me I know god knows what the problem is and you can’t ask someone to sacrifise the rest of their like just because you are not happy you might not understand all the adult nonsense now but one day you will. just because your parents get a divorce doesn’t mean you have to loose any of them they will still me around for you they are not divorcing you just each other. you might even be greatful because all the fighting will stop and the tension will go away and it will be peaceful in you home again and maybe you will have a better relationship with your parents than you do now. besides adults say a lot of nonsense when they are mad maybe they won’t get a divorce anyways just sit tight.
hey kiddo just calm down okay this has to be between your mom and dad maybe your mom is saying that out of anger parents do that sometimes even though it is wrong…..and parents always fight sometimes that is just part of life no body has perfect relationship or marriage…….you may not want your parents to divorce but sometimes it is better to divorce then argue all the time they may even be the best of friends but just wait okay don’t jump to conclusions so fast everything may just settle down on its own
