My mom openly favours my sister, so i called my aunty mother instead, is that ok?
This happens all the time in families. It often causes kids to have low self esteem issues. It will hurt no matter how great you are doing in your life. The best thing I would say is to get counseling because you obviously still have remnants of hurt from your mom’s behavior even though you are saying your life is good. She will always be your mother no matter how she treats your sister. Get married to a wonderful man, start your own family and be a good example, a good daughter despite your mother’s behavior. Your Aunt is your Aunt and you are only calling her his to get back at your mother. Kind of like passive aggressive behavior. Live your life girl.
I know what you are going through. I know its tough and it will be hard to accept this…but your mother most likely loves you. Go to her and tell her you love her. Send her a small boquet of flowers telling her that you love her. Thats it. If she asks or says some type of snide remark, just tell her simply I just wish you could love me for who I am and I love you even if you don’t feel the same. Don’t take her bait…I know you know what this means. It is hard not to seek revenge…but once you have conqured this task you will feel loads better leaving her with her own guilt. Remember, keep it simple. Just because she does that to you doesn’t mean you need to stoop to her level. Do onto others as you would do onto yourself, always,no matter what! She’ll understand before her time has ended…you don’t want things to ever end with a burnt bridge…(especially with your mother) believe me from experience when they are gone the regrett you thought you’d never feel will come rushing in. T
