My boyfriend had a baby with another lady, should I contact her to discuss issues?
Any issues that you have at this point should be discussed with your boyfriend and no one else. If the issue is about the baby then you should talk to your boyfriend who should then talk to his ex. They are the parents and should be able to talk to each other about the health and well being of their children. If you and your boyfriend decide to marry one day then you can build a raport with the baby’s mother and ask her if she would be ok with discussing baby issues with you. Ultimately it is up to her, but at this point you are not married or engaged so she doesn’t have to talk to you about anything.
