Met a girl, she has a boyfriend, so what to do?
She politely declined, and we politely shook hands and exchanged names. She’s already told you she’s not interested. And she has a boyfriend. And I know that sucks, but life sometimes sucks. You should channel the courage you mustered to talk to her in the first place to talk to other women, who are hopefully single.
Just stop. She’s told you that she has a boyfriend, she’s politely declined your advances (yes, they were advances.) You don’t really want to “get to know her better in a platonic way.” No, you should not make this effort. If you really, really, want to quit your job to pursue a job as a dealer, and if it’s really, really not because you’re hoping for a chance with dream-girl, then find a dealer to whom you are not attracted. Network and get advice from them. If you see the woman who is the object of this post, simply acknowledge her briefly and warmly and MOVE ALONG, which is pretty much the only way that your mad crush on her will not damage you either personally or professionally.
Casinos hire young, attractive, female dealers for a reason. She’s been hit on by people much richer than you – she’s giving you the practiced, nice brush-off. In the time it took you to write your question, she got hit on twice. She mentioned her boyfriend to both of them, and declined their invitations to go out for coffee. Move along. If you go back to Vegas, don’t go in that casino.
I can’t believe some of the horseshit ideas that are getting thrown at this guy. It is best to leave it dude. She doesnt want you and that’s it. Every guy has felt like they have been booted in the cajones by a girl’s rejection at some point. It’s not nice and never will be but it’s a fact. SecretDecoderRing: You will get over this and meet someone else who pushes your buttons. Dont do anything stupid dude.
