I’ve been trying to encourage my child to make a counseling appointment but he/she doesn ’ want to go. How can I encourage him/her to get the needed help?
After listening to your adult child’s thoughts and feelings in a sensitive, non judgmental way, you can instill hope by helping them to realize that there are options for help, and that things will not always appear so difficult. Point out that help is available and that you believe that using resources like counseling is a sign of strength and maturity, rather than a sign of weakness or failure. Give information about the counseling service and prepare them for what to expect. If a student is simply not ready to use professional counseling services, you can suggest other resources like residence life staff, chaplains, friends or other trusted adults as a first step in addressing concerns. You can always consult with a Counseling Center professional about your specific concerns in wanting your child to see a counselor.
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