Isn “Tantra” just a fancy name for fucking?
Some groups unfortunately don’t teach the spiritual and emotional aspects of Tantra. Or, if you’re not ready to open emotionally with your partner, learning some sexual techniques can be a place to start (though I think learning how to nurture your body and heal your emotional wounds would be a better place to start). Even if all you learned about Tantra is better ways of fucking, of using your hands and mouth for giving more pleasure, you would likely find it quite satisfying. I don’t fuck in sessions, and I can give you “tips” and “pointers” to make you a world-class lover!
