Is writing ramantic mails to my exboy friend after marriage consider extra marrital affair?
listen when you said “I do”you said “I don’t ” to all the other males friends, ex-boyfriends etc in your life, so it’s quite obvious why your husband felt like you cheated on him, just the fact that you communicated your problems to another man was wrong and it will hurt your husband.Listen i have been married for 5 yrs and i will not even think about talking to another man about anything worse yet about the problems i am having with my hubby. are you crazy?that’s a sure deal in trying to get divorced, i respect my marital vows to my hubby and will not break it for no man, if you felt that you needed to talk to someone about what was going on in your marriage you should’ve spoken to him about it, who’s best to talk to than him, and if he continued to yell as opposed to talk to you about the issues then you could’ve gone to a female friend of yours or family member about it, you made that mistake to talk to an ex-bf about the problems that you were having and he felt betrayed and hurt a
There are relationships that have ended due to internet affairs. You can “date” someone and just be chatting online /emailing /occasional phone call and never meet and to a lot of people that would still be considered cheating. It’s a violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship. It does not depend on the presence of sexual behavior. My heart goes out to you. I understand you were looking for a confidant, someone familiar who understands you. If you truly want to save your marriage you’ll have to come to grips with the fact that you violated your marriage, your husbands trust. Then convey that to your husband. I hope all turns out Ok.
