Is there really an Italian Mafia? If so, then how big is it really?
Yes, there is a Mafia. No, all Italians aren’t part of it. Your mom had a bad relationship, and has let it blind her. Don’t open your home to strangers off the net. He may be everything he says he is, but he may not. You need to find some safe, neutral ground to meet this guy on. And you want to meet his family. HE may put on an act to hook you, but his family will very likely be who they are everyday. You can watch them for clues about how he is likely to treat you and your kids. Good luck.