Is there any kind hearted employed girl , who can marry one handsome simple B.Sc(unemployed) innocent boy?
I was such a girl, n married such a boy. Yes, he was employed, I was unemployed. But due to family wealth n living abroad, my assets were more than his. But he left me, due to the fact that he only wanted my assets, not me. That is what happens most of the time when an unemplyed boy marries an employed girl. Either she is the queen bee, since she’s the wage earner, or he loses respect for her because he feels threatened; and treats her like a second class citizen since she’s supporting a man. It’s very rare that a man is still seen as head of household even though he’s a homemaker and his wife is employed outside the home. Most ppl think monetarily providing for ur spouse is taking care of them. Money equals power. For these two reasons, men are expected by BOTH genders to provide for their wives upon marriage, n wives are expected to submit to demands posed by spouse due to the first expectation.
