Is there a Flylady for FlyFulltimeworkingCouples?
I’m going through the same thing right now. I loosely follow Flylady and Real Simple, sort of blending them until they work for me. I prefer to do quick hits of cleaning every day followed by a more intensive (maybe 30 minutes) once or twice a week. In terms of chore breakdown: what do you hate or aren’t good at? What are you okay with? What about your husband? For example, I’m not a great cook and somewhat enjoy doing dishes, so my SO does the cooking and I do the dishes. I hate unloading the dishwasher, but don’t mind doing the toilet (strange now that I re-read those last two lines). I feel very strongly about clean countertops, but I’m not great at putting my clothes away. So if you start with that, at least you guys are doing things you either don’t mind doing, or would prefer over something else. If there’s something you both loathe, maybe you take turns. In terms of general clutter, I’ve found the biggest improvement has been the “having a place for everything” rule and all the
