Is the fundamental aspect of Christianity love or brow beating people with Scripture?
Love, love, love, love, love! Jesus says He stands at the door knocking, it is up to us to answer. He never barged in and demanded that anybody listen. He has always left it up to us. As Christians, we are to follow that example. We are to let people know that we are available if they would like to know more. Otherwise, we are to just love.