Is putting up a child for adoption giving or selfish?
Adoption is one of the most loving options a family can choose. When one chooses adoption I believe they do it because they truly love the baby and they are fully aware of what their parental capabilities are. Some people choose to parent, some choose adoption and others choose abortion. When choosing adoption it can be a win win situation for everyone involved. In an Open adoption the birth parents can follow their dreams and still have a wonderful relationship with their child without the emotional or financial responsibility. On the flip side the child is living with a family who truly loves them and wants to share the world with that child. In no way is adoption a “selfish” act. A person who chooses adoption has more strength and courage than anyone you will ever meet! Everyone deserves a chance to follow their dreams…adoption is a loving option!
Putting up a child for adoption is NOT always selfish. I’ve seen programs on TV, where the mother and father suffered everyday because of their decision. But the child was way better off. Father and mother were not able to buy food for their baby and provide clothes etc. So, they put their child up for adoption. The child grew up in a richer environment, healthy and with education. Eventually the child became an adult and wanted to visit his/her biological parents. The reunion was very emotional. The “rich” kid could now help his/her parents out. The people that adopted and raised the kid were still honoured as the father and mother. Don’t judge too fast. A kid could end up with two fathers and two mothers and loads of brothers, sisters etc., which could sometimes be looked upon a as a luxury.
