Is putting up a child for adoption giving or selfish?
It is probably the greatest unselfish decision you can ever make. Not for the adoptive family you are giving your child to, but for your child. BUT, be sure you are working with an adoption professional that doesn’t try to talk you into it. It needs to be YOUR decision. http://www.NationalAdoptionAnswerLine.com is a good help to get referrals.
It depends on some circumstance. If a person feels that they are so poor that they cannot provide well for their child, then an adoption might be a kind option. If they want to offer the child for adoption because it going to be an obstacle their level of livelihood or its just going to be too much trouble bringing up a child, then that would be too bad that they fell that way.
as a parent who had to put her children up for adoption, I will say that I don’t think there is anything selfish about adopting out a child, if you know that you can not give the child or children the life that they deserve. It does not mean that you love your children any less. It just means you want them to have the life they deserve because you love them!
Hi if your adopting a child or you have adoted a child, your heart should be in it i dont think child adpotion is selfish at all, your giving a child a chance in life that probably he or she has never had, i think to adopt a child you have to have your heart in it its a full time job as to say bringing up any child, if you adopted a child im sue thatb you will give that child the love and support they require and that child would repsy giving you the love he or she has.
