Is Marriage Necessary in Life ?
A question like that deserves an honest answer, even if you don’t like it. If you can honestly think that marriage is not necessary then your parents most probably had something to do with it and you have never been really in love before. Marriage is all about commitment and the kind of love that has you feeling like you want to spend the rest of your life with the object of your love until death do you part. Unfortunately many people either grew up in broken homes and some are just so shallow that the only person they can love is themselves. As a result many marriages do not last but that does not mean that you cannot find that kind of love. The other problem nowadays is that because most people do not know what love is, they seem to think that a one night stand is grounds for a lasting relationship. They’re in such an all fired hurry to get into a relationship that they are not really looking for the right partner but just any partner that will make them feel special and wanted. The
marriage is a man made institution, and is definitely not necessary in life a man can live happily without marriage, free spirit, natural and wild, just as god intended them to live but the devil invented marriage, to make it apparently appear as if life would be wonderful, but really making sure that both life surely becomes miserable.
I would highly recommend marriage for two reasons: 1.) Marriage is wonderful and it is different. Marriage is commitment. Letting someone know you are willing to spend the rest of your life with them, and only them, is the greatest way you can show your love and the greatest gift you can give. Marriage is devotion. Once you make that commitment you work that much harder to make it work. You don’t give up and you put more energy into making it work for both parties. Marriage is love. You get that ring, you change your name, you feel different. You get filled with a sensation of love never once thought possible. 2.) The second reason to get married is for the experience of the wedding. Whether big or small, it will be magical. The anticipation leading up to your big day will be priceless. The hours of planning your wedding and organizing together will help your bond and will be worth it.
No marriage isn’t necessary & yes a man cal live a happy life without marriage, most likely on his own but yes he can live a life without marriage. If you expect to be with a lady though, you may as well expect to get married otherwise she’s walking. Women want “security”, what ever that means. Security as in a man who will take care of her financially, a man who has been “locked down” with a ball & chain before she ages to where no man wants her, security in if & when she gets divorced most likely she’ll still get something out of it.
