Is it wrong to break up with a letter?”
Relationships are like the people in them: every one is different! If you are trying to break up with a person that you are afraid will come unglued and go psycho on you, maybe even try and hurt you, then I would probably write a letter and then move to Alaska (LOL), but if you are breaking up with a person that is otherwise OK, that you have known for a very long time, or that you still care about in any minute manner, I would do it a little more personally. In the past, I have written letters to poeple when I have had things to say to them that are hard to say out loud and then gave it to them and stood there and waited while they read it in front of me. I am still there to talk to if they need more closure, I am still accountable for my words, I am not ditching them with a letter and sailing off into the sunset. Sometimes it is just easier to get the words in the right order if you write it all down. There is also less of a chance of saying stupid things out of anger. Good luck!
