Is it wrong for Christian men to pierce their ears?
I think, she just needs you to be a good man. She is afraid that piercing you ears might drives you to something bad or that you might be effected by bad people…, I just ask you to live your Christianity in a good way, and the way you Lock in your age (I think you are in between 13 & 19) doesn’t matter and some day you will be convinced they are no more usefull or even u might keep them and just be a wonderfull person, it is always up to you, but let her know u will be save.