Is it wrong falling in love with a married man?
Well, it’s not wrong to fall in love with anyone, you can’t help that. You can however help how you handle the situation… It is wrong to be with him when he is married… in anyway at all. If this man is leaving his wife he needs to leave her for himself and not for you. Seeing you may have sparked his need to get out of the marriage…however… if he leaves her specifically for you there can be issues. You both have changed over 10 years, so there is no guarantee you will even work out, then that is pressure on both of you.. You two really shouldn’t even be talking right now.. he needs to focus on his life and determine if and why he is leaving his wife and if you re in the picture, it may cause problems…PS.. If you are messing around with him, be careful, just because he says he wants to leave her doesn’t mean he will. If he keeps giving excuses, like oh its a bad time, or I want to wait till after Christmas, or until the kids are older etc etc, get out… he leaves her or he do