Is it Worth Seeking Revenge on the Other Woman?
It’s perfectly normal to fixate on the other woman or mistress when finding out about a husband’s cheating. Of course you want to know who she is, what she looks like, how she got her hooks into your husband, and what her intentions are with this whole sorted thing. These feelings are normal. I can’t tell you how many emails I get from wives who are plotting and planning elaborate revenge plots against the other person. Wives feel that getting this revenge will make them feel better and will at least allow them some satisfaction in exchange for their pain. However, some do intuitively sense that opening up this can or worms can do more harm than good. Yesterday, I got an email from a woman who asked “is it really worth it to get revenge on her? Will it help me or just make me feel worse?” I’ll answer this question in the following article. Understanding What You Really Want (And Hope To Gain) By Confronting The Mistress: Often, when I ask wives what they hope to gain by facing down the
