Is it worth marrying a really jealous guy?
I wouldnt marry him unless he changes,, my ex was like him,,, Wouldn’t let me work,would throw away my make up or clothes he didnt like me to wear,,Once we was going to dinner and he thought my top was too revealing, (and it wasen’t at all ) he told me if I wanted to look like a tramp he’d take me where the tramps hung out at,,, And he drove to this really nasty . seedy looking bar and forced me to get out,, and took off and left me there,,, Needless to say I was terrified,, I had to go inside bar , use phone and call my parents to pick me up,,, He still gives me nightmares !!
Don’t marry the man. Anyone that is going to be jealous over girl friends and feel you will not be able to handle yourself and cheat if you go out by yourself has some serious trust issues, ot to mention control issues and problems with self esteem. If he is that controlling now he will only get worse after you marry him. If he feels like he can’t be with his friends because he needs to be watching you all the time what does that ell you about his level of trust in you. Your in a typically emotionally abusive relationship and it is very likely to turn physically abusive especially if you decide that you need time to yourself and with your friends. I have big red flags for you safety going up. This mans idea of marriage will be ownership and he will feel much more entitled to tell you who you can see, and where you can go. The gifts and attention feel great I am sure but they are not an true picture of his love. Trust, friendship and mutual respect all these things are essential for a h
