Is it unlucky to have an engagement party?
If you mean “stag party”, be cautious. I’m a man who’s seen a couple men’s stag parties solely destroy the marriage before it even got started. The grooms friend (well intentioned), sets up the party and invites everyone. The question of strippers at the party always comes up(usually by some abusive loser your fiance’ doesn’t even like). The well intentioned friend tells the loser there will be no strippers at the party. It makes no difference the loser always ends up bringing them anyway. These aren’t your normal strippers either, b.j. $20 sex $50. Your fiance’ doesn’t even have to be drunk. A lot of the time he gets tied to a chair in the middle of the room and a stripper gives him a free b.j. whether he wants or not.