Is it unlucky to have an engagement party?
No way go out there and celebrate- just say it’s an excuse to get drunk and have fun and be the centre of attention and if people say to you “those who have engagement parties never get married” then just point out that those who get engaged have a better chance of getting married than those who aren’t engaged and that you just want to celebrate an occasion that means alot to you. I’ve never heard of it being bad luck. Go and celebrate.