Is it proper to mention plans for a group gift on party invitations for an anniversary party?
Yes, if you have plans for a specific item, it is OK to include a note that gives guests the opportunity to contribute. It’s generally considered bad manners to ask directly for money, but mentioning the idea of a large gift with the option to participate is just fine. Make sure that everyone who contributes signs the card. My siblings and I are throwing a party for my parent’s golden anniversary. They are planning to downsize into a small condo. What would you suggest in lieu of assorted gifts? This is a perfect opportunity to give a gift certificate for an activity, a special meal or a big-ticket item that you know your parent’s would enjoy. It is a common practice at my workplace to circulate a card with a donations envelope. This occurs on various special occasions in the life of a co-worker (birthday, new baby, etc.) I have a limited budget and can’t always contribute. Is that OK? As long as company policy does not forbid it, it’s fine for people in the office to circulate a card
