Is it possible for a guy like me with low self esteem to ever meet a nice girl ?
Yeah, there’s hope for you. I used to be in a pretty similar boat myself. You simply need to start getting out of your house. You probably won’t find any girls to date inside your house. Simply put, the girls are outside your front door in the real world. They are all over. They go about the same errands that you do every day. They shop for groceries. They have to fill up the gas tank. They catch up with friends at the cafe down the street. They squeeze in a fast workout at the gym. They stop by the deli near the office for lunch. They grab the new bestseller at the book shop. I recommend that to meet women you simply need to go to places where a lot of people gather. You might start by going to a coffee house and drinking a cup of coffee while you read a book. Instead of eating your lunch at the office, go out to grab lunch or go sit in a park. Participate in local events. Take a trip to the park and go for a jog or bring your dog. Start looking for reasons to get out and spend less t