Is it okay for my husband to contact his ex-girlfriend who has a terminal illness?
yes i would have a problem did he know when he contacted her about this or did he find out BECAUSE he contacted her Ex’s are Ex’s for a reason and should stay there at such an emotional time anything could happen, i wouldnt like it, people are judging you because she has an illness, if she didnt they would be calling her a homewrecker, sheesh it upsets you, that should be enough in your husbands eyes if he is supportive, whether its rational or appropriate whats bothering you, there is nothing wrong with expecting your husband to respect your wishes
My ex bf’s father and sister both had MS. I still keep in contact with him every now and then to see how they are doing. It is a terrible illness, and it’s sad to see others go through this. Their lives are forever changed, and they are just not the same people they once were. It is hard to just drop them from my life (although I pretty much have)… but it’s nice to keep in contact with them every now and again to see how they are doing. It is extremely difficult to go through – and turns your entire life around. I wouldn’t worry about him leaving you for her, I strongly believe that is not his intention…. he once loved this woman and for a good reason – he probably feels terrible for completely cutting her out of life after this happened, and just wants her to know that he still thinks highly of her. I don’t quite know how to explain it – but don’t feel bad, it’s obvious your husband is compassionate and also experiences guilt….. those are good qualities, nothing to be mad at him
Ok well 1st I would say ask yourself if your being paranoid no punt intended.Then ask him about it and if he doesn’t seem suspicious about it then He prob just really wants to know how she is doing.U gotta remember even though U might say U would never contact an ex who is terminally ill U would because yeah we;re threw with them but there will always be a small amount of love for them we don’t want to see anyone we know ever become terminally sick.So I think U have nothing to worry about or shouldn’t have any negetive thoughts be supportive after all U would feel for someone else U used to date if they became terminal.
