IS it ok to date a 45 year old man, divorced twice with 3 kids?
I can’t see any harm in dating him. No offense, but unless you are looking at dating a much younger man, most of the men you will meet will have baggage. I’m sure you do too. Yours just don’t need allowance and car pools. Just because he has been in failed marriages, it doesn’t make it his fault. It might be but even if it were, he may have changed his ways. Give it a try, if it doesn’t work, walk away. If it does, it might change your life. Yes, he has children and they will need some of his time. It is just a fact of life. You may actually find that it might just be something you come to admire in him is his dedication to his children. I have a good friend who married for the first time at 39 years of age to a man that had been divorced and had two children. She is very happy and loves the kids. They are her family now and everyone is happy. It doesn’t always work and it doesn’t always fail.
